Monday Deals

The Start of the week is like the roll of the dice or playing Black Jack. The better hand you are dealt on a Monday, invariably determines the way you will view your entire week.
If you wake up to a sunny day, car starts , good breakfast ..oh and get to work before anything major breaks down in the house. You are feeling like a winner. You are on top of the game!
When you wake up late, can’t find your keys, forget your materials you needed at work home… You begin to feel behind the eight ball.
Monday is the hardest day of the week by far!
1. Being prepared
2. Lunch
3. Clothes
4. Waking up

1. Being prepared, dependent upon your occupation, can take twenty minutes or twenty hours.
2. Lunch. … Pack it or buy it . Moth are major productions! Buying it you can’t decide where you should go, what you feel like eating and/ or will the restaurant be quick enough for you! Homemade lunch… Prepare the night before or the morning of…best of luck the morning of . I am a night before , grab and go person.
3. Prepare your clothes the night before. Mondays are tough. Try and be gentle on yourself.
4. Waking up on a Monday  is the most difficult, it gets
easier as the week progresses . That’s until you hit Thursday!

Happy Monday all! I hope you all are a winning hand today!


Tons of men .. No one asks

O.K. So you are out with your friends on the usual Friday night extravaganza!
The music begins to play you want to dance, Happy Feet. I mean it’s Friday ! Release the tension and anxiety from that long week of work.
You scan the bar, not a cute guy in site or one that’s not inebriated! The nice looking guys have a lady or girl latched on their arm.
What are your choices?
1. Ask someone to dance
2. Dance with friend
3. Dance alone
4. Wait until someone asks you to dance

Which choices are best? Here’s the truth..
1. Don’t ask anyone to dance! If they are not out there dancing already they either don’t like to dance or have a wife or girlfriend and just came out with a buddy!
2. Dance with friends ..Yes! Winner! When your friends are tired or don’t want to dance the answer of “No” is much easier to handle!
3. Dancing alone! … If you have the nerve and really want to dance I say go for it!
4. Wait for someone to ask you to dance? No! You will be waiting for hours!

Remember time is precious. Enjoy each micro-second

The Encounter with The Ex!

You have finally, or thought you have,  come to terms that the relationship was no good and it was for the  “best” that it ended.

You are feeling confident and so certain, out of the blue he pops up.  Of course it’s always when you are not looking your best.

A weird nausea comes over you.  What is going on?!   You licked this one , you were  finished., suddenly there you are .

What should you do?   With all your strength pull yourself together immediately!  Don’t let him think for a second he has won!

I realize you wonder who am I to write this.  Well I am the girl that has run into the ex..not looking even 10 percent human!  This was the guy that pulled the rug out from underneath me…Did I show it …NO!!!

I picked my head up, put a smile on my face because I phoned my bestie to tell her, of course the answering machine picked up and I continued my explanation.

What happened after that…. I smiled said hello and kept moving!

Within ten minutes I received a call to let me know how amazing I am.


Should you acknowledge or not?

Well here it goes… Just when you are pulling your life back together after being ripped apart , I mean carrying on after a break up.. A card comes in the mail ! To say you are amazing?
I recall I wasn’t so amazing before, suddenly I’m a star?
What changed? I have my thoughts.. Here they are
I have ignored you and you can’t handle the fact that you are not THE WORLD!
You had a girlfriend and she found out
the real you!
Or maybe you really do love me?!
Nah! The last one definitely isn’t you or any man!!
Men are in relationships for the long haul, I mean the short haul!
If you are new to relationships .. Ladies.. Hint : no guy wants to put a ring on your finger if he’s been married before !
No they want us to support and root for them .
So get your flags out and cheer them on!
Oh and don’t forget .. Cook a meal while you are cheering!

Where are all the “Good Guys Hiding?”

Where does one meet an educated man these days?   If not fixed up by a friend, it becomes a vicious cycle! You are doomed  left with no choice but to sign up with one of the many dating services out there!

Have you ever visited these sites? Let me know!

My question is.. Where are all the “Good Guys Hiding?”  I know they are out there.. because the women are out there too.  Guys just don’t notice us.

Here’s why:

The floozies out there look more enticing!

Most men don’t want to commit.

If I’m wrong guys, let me know!

If you are a lucky one and end up on a date and is some information for you.

Here’s a few tips:

“Ten Things You Shouldn’t Say on a Date:
1. You’re wearing that?

2. Something smells funny.

3. Where’s the Tylenol?

4. And to think, I first wanted to date your brother.

5. I have a confession to make…

6. My dad has a suit just like that!

7. That man is hot. Look at him!

8. My ex, may he rot in hell forever…

9. You’re going to order that?Seriously?

10. You’re how old?”

― Gena Showalter

“People always fall in love with the most perfect aspects of each other’s personalities. Who wouldn’t? Anybody can love the most wonderful parts of another person. But that’s not the clever trick. The really clever trick is this: Can you accept the flaws? Can you look at your partner’s faults honestly and say, ‘I can work around that. I can make something out of it.’? Because the good stuff is always going to be there, and it’s always going to pretty and sparkly, but the crap underneath can ruin you.”
― Elizabeth Gilbert

Have you ever visited these sites?  Let me know!

The Constant Caller

This ladies and gents my seem to be sincere at first …but if it becomes every two hours..and requesting your location( like a GPS). Get out. This is a person that wants to not only smother you…but dictate your life … run the other way!